The BMW Man….!!!

Well…..Now Finally this July bestowed on me & welcomed me in my early 20s & Buzz Buzz Buzz soon few Women in my family have started eyeing me as one of the eligible bachelors, Honestly I call them saiko women!!! Yes Ofcourse Saiko as I m just 21yrs & they finally were trying to get me hitched with the Rich Kid, With A Construction Builder Dad & Yes A BMW……!!! This Saiko women were nonetheless than my Maternal uncle’s wife & My maternal aunties!!! I was not even aware about the plot cooking & stuffing in their minds!! Suddenly I was blown with a huge shock when I understood this non sense during my brother’s b’day!! The worst part which forced me writing this over here is This BMW Man….!! Seriously I found this incidence pathetic!! About Me as I am born to a builder grand father very rich bachelors coming as a proposal for marriage is very obvious & as being a daughter of one of the head honcho of banking sector getting hitched with a really qualified men stands next in this list but I never expected this all so early!!

Well coming back to the BMW man & the reason me writing this here is!!

This BMW Man is a guy around 28yrs or so, I didn’t even bothered to know his age but I some how know this as we were grown together but I didn’t bother to keep contact with him after once I saw him I guess I was around 7yrs that time…..!!

Again back to the topic This BMW ass actually was hitched & hooked badly with a girl & they dated for long time & their marriage was fixed but the marriage did called off as of his ego & cheating. So his girlfriend as in his Ex to be wife left him!! Lil desperate heart & over desperate physique was unable to bare it, he once saw me somewhere, I don’t even remember where he saw me and finally decided to get to me for marriage & so he was trying to first impress my paternal uncle’s wife as she was only link he had to get me & 24*7 he used to chat with her & even currently it’s so with he asking about me & all desperate crap……!!!

And he is that category who can’t respect a women any time & who ended up bitching badly about his ex & that nasty kind of bitching which pointed to her character badly when he was actually characterless & he was highlighting her flaws….!!! And What Kind Of Love Is This???!!, Which Knows Nothing But Bitching About Love Interest, Well Than That’s Not Love At All!! As its Ego Ego & Ego & Great Indian Male Ego!! The way he used to talk all crap about his ex, when I heard all that, I honestly found him to be 0 as a human & even as a man……as a good man will never disrespect a women or point her flaws publicly, moreover love never boasts or is never intolerant or never humiliates. And speaking about true love, “True Love Even After Getting Hurt Never Hurts Back”!!! But about this fellow it was drama as in purely fake as he just wanted the excuse to defend himself for the break up he had with is gf who was going to be his wife, so that he can save his skin & get a new girl, thinking him as a good guy!! Well a person who can’t respect a women, who is good at bitching & abusing, can never ever be a good groom or a nice proposal!! Speaking about the Luxury cars……Life is never submerged within the doors of any car as its far much beyond it!!! Money is not meant to be permanent factor!! What remains forever is Purity & Genuineness of love, Honesty, Openness, care, Being Frnds(Constant teasing & using slangs for each oder:D) & Yes that respect which not necessarily be shown in words to the lover but is in actions like being honest & sharing everything!! This fellow honestly lacked it badly!! And when a man can’t be loyal to a one women he can’t be loyal to the other….and if he failed to respect her…where he will respect his women in future coz such category only knows to respect their ego & pamper it to the best & care for their things more & humans & human emotions Less!!

Well than how was I supposed to be happy with such category, infact no women can be happy with such category ever!! I M Finally Happy After Saying A Stringent NO-NO to This Fellow & Thnx to my Parents & Specially Mom for firing all Saiko Women in my House……& I M Really glad to my dad’s side as all from my dad’s side marry late i.e, from 30yrs -35yrs!! Finally I M Outta The BMW Man……Who was not less than a shit pot!!!

And I personally feel no women should make a mistake of choosing man merely on the basics of his riches or qualification or looks because at the end of the day the quality of human being does matters & not his External Glory!! It’s really must to be with a person who can understand you, who is honest & non egoistic, who knows to respect women & who can willingly change for you!! As all materialistic things can’t provide personal happiness….If U have a “Royal Bed But Not A Loyal Husband” Than What’s Use Of The That Royal Bed??!! & “If He Can Gift You Solitaire Diamond Ring Or Set You On Ride In Porsche But Does Not Respects Your Views Or Abuses You”, Trust Me No Women Can Be Happy In Such Porsche car or with Such Solitaire Diamond Ring!! There are many such “Things to Think”!!! But I M honestly happy & relieved and outta that horrible BMW man Proposal Trauma…..I m as usual 100% focused on my career growth & Enjoying my freedom

& about marriage I m honestly still too young for the shit to happen & about man & love than yes i m still waiting for someone worth it & someone who’ll be the best human ever I met in my life….& about love it needs moment to carry the breathes away & that moment can even take entire life time because we can’t get that moment & feeling every now & than…..it has its own time….For me that time has not come yet…..so No weeding bells & anyways its good that moment didn’t come till now as honestly I m too young for marriage….!!

“Just Doing The Right Things At The Right Time…..”!!